Monday, January 03, 2011

Thinking about things.

You ever catch yourself thinking about things so much, that the things your thinking about take a life of its own? I find that I do that a lot. Especially when it comes to relationships, both romantic and platonic. What's this person thinking when they don't respond to a text message? What's that person thinking when they cancel plans? Who knows. I can spend all day coming up with theories and explanations that could mean completely nothing. Or that lead me to disaster.

I've always been the type of person to say how I feel when I feel it. That when I have something that's bothering me, I'll bring it up. While that makes sense in a lot of cases, sometimes I think it's good to chill and not over think things.

2 comments:

Uyen Tran said...

don't over think. i find that most of the time the other people don't think about it / care about it as much as you think they do. make sense?

JanditoChingonito said...

Agreed. Don't think too much - at least when it comes to other people's approaches. It leads to assuming and assuming often leads to misinterpretation.